We dwell in a society where everyone is striving for the survival. Where the problems like water scarcity, load shedding, poor transport, goods hikes are making the people’s life miserable where ignorance to severe diseases is nearing the people to death and social media websites are the dominant agents for creating a polarized and chaotic society. Consequently the rate of mental illnesses is escalating and still we in oblivion where we are heading? Unfortunately no one contemplates that our aggressive actions, our wild behavior and our way to cope up things may have profound impact on others. It has been years we are facing the crises and now we have developed intolerance which is becoming a threat to our social life and our society in general. We as a component of this country are to be blamed for the topsy-turvy enrooted in our society. Yes! We are blameworthy. We don’t do things by ourselves, but we merely wish for someone to make the things easier and sort out the problems for us and yet we blame the politicians for all the mishaps which have sadly found a home. Perhaps we in imaginary world are hoping for an angel to come down on earth and do something and we want to be dumbfounded? But none of us think that.
Allah has bestowed us with the aptitude and courage to change our conditions. Despite that we are leading a life a disable man’s life. Ah! We are too stubborn, undoubtedly. How many times you heard the word ‘CHANGE’? Have you deeply thought of it for a while? If no, then it’s a high time to put aside all the things and think for the safety of motherland. If yes, then you might have also thought that how to change the worst and outrageous things. But I am sure many of you failed to remove the dust rotting our society. So the reason is, we judge others and pinpoint their flaws blatantly and consistently tell them about their wrongdoings. We know that, wrong is wrong even if everyone is doing it and right is right even if no one is doing it. We don’t say them at a time about their wrongdoings which eventually feel annoying and insulting to them. Firstly you need to change yourself because there is a proverb that charity begins at home that’s why change begins with you. Because you can’t force others to be change, but I am sure that you can compel them to change him or her self by creating a good example of yours. “As Prophet Mohammad P.B.U.H.”
Now I want to share with you guys some of the habits that I personally implemented on myself and that became a source for me to change others too. Many of you daily see heaps garbage while walking on road or traveling somewhere and then we only think that we must do strike on it. But who can’t even clean up the area? So the pinpoint is, neither we criticize ourselves nor we blame ourselves that we are also involved in this, but we only focus on others and not only we criticize them but also we blame them and this is true that I myself use to throw garbage. But the feeling of guilt and the question, What am I contributing for a better PAKISTAN pulled me to stop doing what I was previously doing, I actually inspired many people surrounding me, they at least don’t throw garbage when I am present with them not because I dislike but it seems like, that they like the change and they praise me for this, I know it didn’t help to clean up the area but it did awake the sense of a good citizen in me and in others as well I might seem awkward to share with you but the sole reason to write this article to tell you people that a minor change can make this country a heaven this minor change can result in to major and minimize our grief and we will see life from a good aspect.
This country is already flooded with hatred and faces every casualty now and then so why not spread love and peace.
Nobody wants to be a victim or culprit. Let’s do it……… Change yourself .